I Don’t Want you to Hurt Anymore
By Dr. Robert Huizenga
I don’t want you to live in a life sucking ripped apart marriage.
I want you to wake up in the morning, excited for the new possibilities for your marriage.
If you are jaded, cynical – “Yeah, right! Dream on!” – Stop it!
Imagine what the marriage you truly deserved would look like.
- your spouse noticing you, raising eyebrows, paying attention, asking questions, concerned about what you are doing, responding to your words, different body language
- feel the tension, knot in stomach, heaviness in chest fade
- feel your inner strength swell as you are noticed, acknowledged, considered
- start to get your self esteem and confidence back
- you could actually breathe when your spouse or partner moves close
- from afraid of losing it all > knowing love is possible
- from going crazy or numbing yourself > feeling in control and hopeful
- from fearing your children are suffering > household with much less tension
Maybe, just maybe, you can get there!
And, maybe you need not TRY SO HARD!
Discover an easier way, a way that holds integrity and power. A way to bring back the joy of your marriage. After all, the person you are married to is the same person you could not live apart from in the beginning.
Wishing you the best,