Save My Marriage – Stop The Hurt


I Don’t Want you to Hurt Anymore

By Dr. Robert Huizenga


 I don’t want you to live in a life sucking ripped apart marriage.

dysfunctional marriage

A dysfunctional marriage is more than physical hurt.

I want you to wake up in the morning, excited for the new possibilities for your marriage.


If you are jaded, cynical – “Yeah, right! Dream on!” – Stop it!


Imagine what the marriage you truly deserved would look like.



  • your spouse noticing you, raising eyebrows, paying attention, asking questions, concerned about what you are doing, responding to your words, different body language
  • feel the tension, knot in stomach, heaviness in chest fade
  • feel your inner strength swell as you are noticed, acknowledged, considered
  • start to get your self esteem and confidence back
  • you could actually breathe when your spouse or partner moves close
  • from afraid of losing it all > knowing love is possible
  • from going crazy or numbing yourself > feeling in control and hopeful
  • from fearing your children are suffering > household with much less tension

Maybe, just maybe, you can get there!


Try it!


And, maybe you need not TRY SO HARD!



Wouldn’t It Be Nice If This Is All Marriages Ever Turned Out To Be?

Discover an easier way, a way that holds integrity and power. A way to bring back the joy of your marriage. After all, the person you are married to is the same person you could not live apart from in the beginning.


Wishing you the best,




About Laurence

Hi friends, when I began this blog 2 years ago I was at the end of what turned out to be a 51year marriage. My wife succumbed to cancer on 12/6/11 and life has not been the same since. It was and still is my goal here to promote long term marriages. There are many reasons this is difficult today, but I still believe it is possible and via this blog I will be trying to suggest steps you BOTH can take to save your marriage. Thank you
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