Saving Your Marriage Can Be Simple

What If Saving A Marriage Is Simple?

 Lets take a look at this resource if you want to save your marriage.

“Stop Marriage Divorce Ebook” is written by a phd psychologist, Katie Zaltman.

Below is a summary of the ebook and a link for further information.

Please know that when in the throes of losing your marriage it is important to get your hands on as much information as possible.
Save Your Marriage Alone

Only God Can Change Hearts And Begin Saving Your Marriage

And, if the ebook doesn’t speak to you, a refund is slam dunk easy; something you can’t do at Barnes and Noble.

Here’s what you will encounter to help you save  your marriage.

-The missing key ingredient needed to save your marriage  
-What words you need to say to get your spouse back
-Why advice others give you are the worst thing that can happen to you
-How easy it is to apply our methods thanks to the mistakes made by others
-How to resolve lingering conflicts
-What men and women want in their marriage or relationship
-Why you haven’t been able to improve your marriage more up to this point
-The differences between the thought pattern of spouses in successful and unsuccessful marriages
-And Much Much More!    

Get your copy here:


 More of what you will learn about marriage restoration:
1. Discover exactly what is involved in a successful marriage. It is more common than you think.

2. Learn powerful strategies for bringing back passion into your relationship. No matter how long you have been married. Anyone can follow these methods and succeed.

3. Know how to resolve problems with inequality in your marriage. Learn how to handle gender roles in your marriage including the person who makes the most money.

4. How power can be destructive and bring a downtime in every relationship

5. You do not have to convince your spouse to change. You can work on the relationship even if your spouse doesn’t see the need.

6. Why arguing is a waste of time and the amazingly secret to get around it.

7. Learn how to avoid getting your marriage stuck on things that happened in the past.

8. Understand why the real problem causing an abusive marriage may be something that you, not your spouse is actually doing.

9. How dressing for success is essential in saving your marriage.

10.    How to work at your relationship effectively without being pushed away by your partner.

11. Improving and making your communications skills more effective.

Check it out:
Best regards as you and your spouse work together on re-creating your marriage.
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Saving Your Marriage – If You Want To!

Saving your marriage is possible, if you both want it to work!

If your marriage is to the point of questioning how long you will be together, you may be asking how to save my marriage. Remember that a marriage is a union of two people, so finding solutions to your marriage problems together is essential. These problems cannot be solved by just one of you.


A Sure Fire Way To Not Communicate In Your Marriage


Here are some tips that can help bring you together and increase the chances of your marriage lasting:

No marriage is perfect. Unlike fairy tales, typical marriages have their flaws just like each of us do. Do not expect perfection from each other. Accept that there will be lumps and bumps along the way.

Marriage requires work. For your relationship to work, both of you need to realize that it takes work to make a marriage strong. The more work that you put into your marriage can result in an honest and happy relationship. If you do not take this seriously, it can be detrimental.

The areas that typically need the most work involve trust and respect in one another . Without these things, your marriage will fall apart.

Marriage Communication Is A Two Way Street.

Communicate and listen effectively. Create an environment where you can talk to each other without getting upset. Speak calmly and clearly about how you feel and allow your partner to do the same.

Make sure to listen to what they have to say, regardless of what they say. Discuss how each of you feel and find common ground where both of you feel that you can find solutions for issues you are facing. The more open and honest you are with each other, the better.


Your Marriage Is Worth More Than A Phone Call…Communicate!

Do not dwell on past problems. Do not let past mistakes or misunderstandings determine the future of your marriage. While your past problems may be quite serious, dwelling on them will not help your marriage. Focus on the here and now and take each day as it comes.

Be more giving to one another. Be considerate of each others needs and feelings. You can do caring gestures to simply show that you are thinking of them. If you are unsure as to what you should do for your spouse, ask them what you can do to make them happy. Doing something that will make them feel loved  and special can go a long way towards strengthening your marriage. Sometimes doing the simplest things can mean the most to them.

If you are both truly committed to making changes to save your marriage, a good resource is …

Don’t be ashamed to ask for or seek HELP!  Usually it’s the first step in saving your marriage.



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Senior Marriage-Can Be The Best There Is!

Senior Marriage Can Have It’s Ups And Downs. However, it is still the best medicine I know of for aging couples.

Society likes to paint a perfect picture of the cute older couple holding hands through the grocery store, so deeply in love since their young high school days.  Is this just a marriage myth, or can it really be for real?

Although this vision of marriage is possible for seniors, it may not be the case in your marriage.  Do you need marriage help?

Senior Marriage Can Be Great!

Senior Marriage Is Just Like Aged Wine… The Best!

Marriage can be difficult at any age.

Trials and tribulations do not cease in a marriage just because you and your spouse have become older and wiser.  In fact, seniors deal with problems in their marriage just like their younger counterparts.  If you are a senior and your marriage needs help, there are places to turn for the advice and help you need.

With advancing age comes more health issues. 

Medical troubles can lead to the need for marriage help.  Maybe you or your spouse are having a hard time dealing with a health problem.  It can be difficult to deal with a spouse who refuses to take care of themselves properly when diagnosed with a health condition such as diabetes or heart disease.

You may nudge your spouse to eat the diet appropriate for the condition because you love him or her, but your spouse may view this as nagging.  Maybe your spouse feels you don’t trust them to make the right choice.  Misunderstandings and miscommunications such as these can create the need for marriage help.

Consider finding a couples therapist in your area.  A therapist can help you and your partner learn to communicate more effectively.  A support group related to the health condition may also be a great way to help your marriage.  Marriage help comes in many forms.

Limited income can make a budget tight.

When dealing with financial issues in your marriage, you have several options.  Marriage help in regards to financial issues can come in the way of credit counseling.  A credit counselor can help you and your mate create a budget that will be effective while living on your retirement money or social security.  A visit with the credit counselor is usually free of charge.

With Retirement Comes Many Emotional Changes.

Couples may find they need marriage help during the transition from work and children to retirement and empty nest syndrome.  Couples who previously worked full-time positions have cut back their hours or completely left the work force.  Now, husbands and wives are around each other nearly all day every day.  This time together may be appealing at first, but eventually couples need some time apart.  Maybe your marriage needs help with this issue.

Join a senior center in your area. 

Join the “Y” get doing some exercise. You and your spouse can find other seniors to talk to and get to know each other.  Making friends will give you someone to chat with besides your mate.  Marriage help can come from friends.

Remaining active can be a good stress reliever for your marriage.

Boredom during the retirement years can be stressful on both partners in a marriage.  A fine way to help your marriage is to stay busy by traveling or volunteering.

Marriage help can be available in many forms for all marriage problems.  Although seniors are not exempt from trouble, they can find the marriage help they need.  Senior organizations, credit counseling, and couples therapy are all ways to help your marriage.

Friends it’s really up to you.  My wife and I have just passed the 50+ mark in our marriage.  As I have mentioned earlier it has not been perfect.  But, divorce never came to the table.  Having just retired we both remain active. Her at the gym, yoga, swim, churh family etc.  And me blogging, kayaking, PPG flying, backpacking, church, family.

Senior Marriage like any marriage takes a bit of work, it’s worth it!



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Tips For Communicating With Your Spouse

Do you Ever Wish you Had “Magic Words” to use when Communicating with your Spouse?

Susie and Otto Collins just sent me an e book that helps you frame words that work.

An important part of coaching is helping others precisely say what they truly intend to say in words that are POWERFUL and engaging.

I highly recommend Susie and Otto. They are people that truly care and are dedicated to helping people build their marriage.


There is a cure for communicating to save your marriage!


Please take seriously what they say below and get their E-book.

Here’s what they say…

Have you ever wished you had the “right” words to say in a difficult relationship situation where you just didn’t know the right thing to say?

Have you ever said the WRONG thing to someone  (possibly even to your spouse or partner) and then wished you had said something different or regretted what you said later?

Have you ever “not said anything” to someone about something because you didn’t know what to say or how to say it?

Of course you have.

We ALL have.

Now you don’t have worry about what to say or how to say it to your spouse ever again because of “Magic Relationship Words” that you can begin using in just a couple of moments.

You’ve been in enough relationships to know that…

“Words Can Hurt and Words Can Heal…”

What you may not know is that there are actually  “Magic Words” that smart couples use to create more closeness, connection, peace, harmony, understanding and even passion in their marriage.

Most people in a marriage don’t know about these words and how to use them.

We’ve put together a collection of 101 of these “magic words,” phrases and sentence starters in it that you can begin using in your marriage right now to make sure you say it right every time.

What will learning these “magic relationship words” do for you?

One person who just saw them said…”If I learn how to use these words, my Husband and I will have had our last argument.”

I believe that if you start using these magic words they can work miracles in your marriage.

No Kidding.

Using these magic words when you talk to your spouse or partner will help you..

~ Build or rebuild trust

~ Reduce or eliminate jealousy

~Communicating will be improved

~ Increase connection

~ Create more passion and intimacy both in and out of the bedroom

AND Much More…

These “magic” relationship words, phrases, and sentence starters are true communication difference-makers that can determine the quality, happiness and connection of not just your intimate relationship or marriage but all your other relationships as well.

They can be the difference between whether someone opens and listens to you or closes up, gets mad or just ignores you.

Here’s the web page to go to learn more about these words that really will work like magic in your marriage

Marriage Communication

Magic Words To Prosper Your Marriage


Our Best To You,

Otto and Susie

P.S. To see an example of these “magic words” in action and to learn how you can use them to create more connection in your marriage and life… Just click on the banner and watch this exciting video.


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